They're mad over the report of the drug selling and i need to know what to do. After I replied, the conversation turned nasty, he began calling me names. I called the cops, he has lost a fifteen year career, I have had CPS called on me, no court or judge will drop the TRO, I have two small children I have zero help with from their father or their father's immediate family, he has spent thirty days in jail ... the list goes on and on. It sounds drastic, but unless there is some compelling reason for her to stay in that town, she needs to move home and start over. I find out that my husband and another woman over my house last year. Law enforcement has failed to help how can this be? i have been trying to take him to small claims court but he keeps hiding because he knows i have a good case and will win. Knowing this in advance will help you limit your witnesses and evidence to the most relevant. After she left our home it was fine for about one month and then she started to call us and text us that she was going to see her grandkids (my children) one way or another! That judge is … my ex is trying to get a restraining order on me. In the case of domestic or family violence, an ex parte restraining order can be given to a victim by the police or magistrate when his or her alleged abuser is arrested for domestic violence. Current or former spouse 2. We have a 4 month old son together. Plus I'd rather avoid the drama. I moved into my landlord's house about three weeks ago. Is it better for me to send him a letter as well asking not to contact us? He cannot seem to set boundaries that he will enforce and she knows it. I want her to stay away from me and my kids because her behavior is so unsafe -- especially when she has been drinking, which is all the time. If he or she is not made aware of the potential TRO before it is issued, however, that person cannot knowingly take action before the TRO is in effect. You don't threaten to be mean to children, period. We are not able to comply for long. Is there anything she can do as far as getting a protective order on this three women? I broke up with her after a while and realized that we had to break up since it's against the law to date someone who's underage. However, if you said, or implied, that you had some kind of evil plan in mind for him or his girlfriend, you're on much shakier ground. In a lot of ways, people are ignorant and unable to handle situations like adults. he began cussing at my company, then proceeded to go get his personal tow truck to tow the vehicle (the truck was moved). Maybe actually try telling the person that you will call the police or send them to jail. I contacted her husband and spoke with him regarding my concerns and we had both suspected something was 'off' with their friendship. But I suspect if I wanted to actually wanted to get her back, I don't think a piece of paper would protect her very well. Was thinking this was the way to go to protect myself/her. Coming from experience, once the court system has entered into your life they are like a parasitical fungi that no matter what you do grow into masses of dog poo. and I have been living in pure hell since I moved in! I then asked landlord if he really wanted her to get out. The trial, however, might not take place for several weeks, months or even years. There is a woman living above me in an apartment and she refuses to stop the horrible things she is doing. I believe she is upset that I would question paternity of her child and therefore she feels she need to 'shut me up'. If the harm that might be done if the temporary restraining order is not issued is not immediate, significant and irreparable, then the TRO is unlikely to be issued. The police were not called, and he volunteered to move out and continue to pay the rent and watch our children so that I could work. Once you made the threat to her children, she had every right to file some kind of complaint against you. I had a similar situation I had an affair with a married women I met while working. He is going to jail for approx 15-30 days. What will happen if I do not shop up for the date? Now this woman in threating me with a restraining order if I contact her or her husband. We talked about how we were going to have sex through texting. A TRO commands the parties in the case to maintain a certain status until the court can hear further evidence and decide whether to issue a preliminary injunction. Before 1986, there were no TROs. There are also other hotlines in other parts of the world, if that's where you are. my girl friend got sent a restraining order from her husband and in there it said i was not allowed to be around their son. Me and my ex girlfriend are on lockdown after what happened, and we had secretly communicated with each other. These were meant to protect people who are in danger of serious harm. anyone have any ideas? They attend the same church and my daughter did not change her seat, as she felt that would be even more awkward, un-Christian and immature. we want to be together despite our age differences. After the mandatory 61 day protective order expired, I was living at home with her and my four children while this played out in court. for her to be there if she could be civil. Should i get a restraining order on her so she can't even try to come near my kid? The next day, I showed the pics and texts to his dad, and he wound up in a mental help facility. I am so ticked off because when the landlord was giving his side, he went from wanting her the bleep out of the house (said this in front of me) to saying it was O.K. he owes me money. However, you also need to tell your parents. I would like to know if I live in Texas and want to file a TRO against a person in California, is it possible? When the police showed up, I told them what was going on. It happens every day. I live in Virginia and would like to know if I can get a restraining order against my boyfriend's ex wife who lives in Wisconsin. She was at every hearing with me. what can i do? My problem is not necessarily with the landlord himself. Is there anything we can do to get this reversed or anything? It tears us both apart, to say nothing of what it is doing to our children. When he is mad and I lie down in bed next to him. For example, if two neighbors are involved in a dispute over the cutting down of trees near their shared property lines, the neighbor who wants to cut down the trees might do so before the TRO hearing if he or she is aware of it. I want my apartment back to myself and my family. So, as you can see, these really aren't even good methods for trying to resolve civil matters. I felt like she was a total danger to the household, but since the landlord changed what he originally said to me, she was ultimately allowed back whenever she wanted if she could act like an adult. She cannot believe she's worked so hard to be such a good person and this is happening to her. I am a woman, speaking to all women and men out there. @anon331084: No. You had to use police force to take care of these situations. I saved a couple of the texts saying how we could have sex and no one needs to know and every time I said no, we're related, he would still text "come on, please." And now she's filing for me to go to court. Also called TROs (temporary restraining orders), TPOs are meant to guard against domestic violence, harassment or stalking, workplace harassment, sexual assault (rape), or child abuse. There has been very little contact with my mother and the other day she decided she wanted to talk to me while i was at school with the counselor! Can I get a TRO against her successfully or does the landlord have all the power? I would like to know if my ex (we were to get married) can get a restraining order on me. Just asking: is this fair that I will be in court, when in fact, she is the one saying bad stuff about me and my family? Recently we thought that there was a possibility of my girlfriend being pregnant and her parents freaked out and want to put a restraining order on me for it. the lease was changed before she was served. I'm 16 and he's 15. can his mom put a restraining order against me? I want to file for a restraining order, but I have a class with the kid. He lives here, too. He always tells me he has nothing to do with her, but I have seen pics and texts that they have taken together and that she has received from him using his stepdad's phone, but if she has one on him can she still do these things and not be punished for her actions or should I file one on her for harassing me? Is it possible to gain a TRO on a landlord in Trumbull county ohio? Two minutes ago he wants her out and now he wants her to stay? My father doesn't want to seek professional help. No wonder she filed for divorce. Thanks. While the law may vary in different states, you can generally apply for a restraining order with the court in the county where your potential abuser lives. I don't want to have to go through the process of eviction or a restraining order because he has threatened to pay me back detrimentally if I do. If the judge signs a temporary order you will need to return to our office to receive your copy which will have the hearing date and time on it. Recently, he's cheated on me, and still hit me and threatened me not to leave and already turned up in front of my house and I secretly had to obey him before my parents find out there's a boy in front of my house. Is this legally possible? I've seen what abuse can do to a person firsthand. his ex wife put a restraining order on him, but she is always calling him and texting my phone harassing me, telling me vulgar things that she and he have done since we have been together. I'll be 20 years old in a week and hide this relationship from my parents. They were fighting as usual, and tonight I was the one calling the cops about her disruptive behavior. We will never get to live in that house as his family will be already living there. Justice in this country is unfair and unjust. can he get a restraining order on me if he owes me money? I have heard you can counter sue for things, but I haven't taken out a security interest in the daughter yet. okay so i have been on the bus to school almost every day and there are these two kids and they are both brothers. I don't know whether to believe her or not. Since she didn't want the police involved I ended up backpeddling saying that nothing happened. by phone or e-mails etc.? Me and my boyfriend's parents found out that we had sex. He wants her here, and I do not, so what can I do? He says he hates me and I'm nothing but an idiot and a worthless slut, but then says he'll kill me if I ever leave him. I jumped on top of me and pinned me down so that i couldn't move, on our bed. I am certain this situation will continue unless she is forced to stop. Temporary ex parte restraining orders, or TROs, are court-ordered to temporarily protect a victim of domestic violence from their abuser. Turn your phone off, don't answer, don't reply, smile and wave. My question is can she put a restraining order on me just for that reason? It was a horrible night and though not excused in any way, I don't think my punishment fits. I am very regretful for ever hurting her. Many of these legal situations didn't exist before 1986. Now, here we are, two months later and my suspicions tell me the counselor’s husband is a domineering, abusive type who's pushed this action, after hearing the counselor "talk" about it. 4. Courts will typically use this 2-part test to determine whether to issue a TRO: A TRO will only expire after 14 days, unless it is extended for another 14 days, or unless the party against whom the order is directed consents that it may be extended for a longer period. When we were both talking and exchanging messages. I have tried to cope with this for four years, but the continuing situation is causing me too much emotional and mental distress and my marriage is in jeopardy. Tell your parents, or at least, if you're in the U.S., call the National Domestic Violence Hotline. He said it like a million times and said they were through, meaning he was breaking up with her. In most cases, a TRO lasts for only a few days, until a hearing can be held to determine whether a preliminary injunction will be issued until the full trial can be held. they want to get in a fight with me. so me and my boyfriend broke up after a year and a half. My husband and i lived with his mother for a few months and we had a huge fall out. I wrote back to the 17 year old, but I did not threaten her in any way! etc. I was told by an attorney that in West Virginia, you cannot get a restraining order unless you have a "story" that shows you were physically put in harm’s way by the one you are complaining about. To my knowledge, she calls the cops on him all the time for "abuse" and then the landlord gets in trouble for her false allegations, because before I moved in, nobody was around to witness them fighting. I was told by the sheriffs department in her own town that an ex parte is smoke and mirrors and if I am not wanting to contact her anymore I shouldn't waste my time. Furthermore, there was a sense of honor and respect long ago. It was not threatening in any way, just telling her to get out of my personal affairs and questioning the validity of the "harassment" claim, and the worst thing I said is that I have no respect for such a volatile attitude. We have been concerned about this counselor for months, but we tried to do the Christian thing, the right thing, by encouraging our daughter to just be very careful, steer clear, etc. A TRO might be issued to prevent a bank or creditor from immediately repossessing a vehicle, equipment or property if doing so might cause irreparable financial harm to the requesting party. If approved, the judge will grant a temporary restraining order that is generally valid for 15 days. Finally, the third time, the two drive up next to her again and now she is not pregnant and has the chance to defend herself and gives the husband's cousin two black eyes and more. Domestic Violence Restraining Orders require a special relationship between the parties such as: spouses; former spouses; persons related by blood or marriage; parties with a child in common; partners and persons in a dating relationship. First Amendment? Does Article 9 apply? The hate that will be spewed by him and his future relationships around my children. I work in a retail store and a customer has always been verbally abusive towards me and others and there is security footage of this individual showing his fist towards me and he gets closer to me with his fist. Isn't he entitled to cover my college fees if he has the money, but wants to spend on other things that will not do anything positive for his children? But here's the truth: telling them now, while you're alive and able to do so is a heck of a lot better than them finding out only after your ex has beaten you to death. The counselor has shown up at stores where my husband and my daughter were already present, and at restaurants where my daughter always eats, always has, as there are only a handful to choose from. 4. And you're not going to like hearing this, but you need to tell your parents. If your daughter leaves the territory, then the problem should solve itself. Somebody threatened to put a bullet through my husband's head. Temporary restraining order. Is there any way that I can stop my mom from putting a restraining order on my boyfriend if I'm a minor? was inside. No phone calls, no texts, no talking more than 10 words even in their very own presence, nothing. A Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) is a court order of limited duration. If i have a Tro on someone and a court date is in a few days. And the other day he came in and took a picture with his digital camera of me without my consent and denied deleting the photo of me when my manager has witnessed him doing taking the picture of me to further harass me at work. Distribute your copies of the temporary restraining order, if it was granted. The landlord gave his side of the story. I personally find it a little immature, she took the risk off having the affair now face getting caught. Furthermore, that's just going to anger the person even more, possibly putting the petitioner/defendant in even more danger. Is there any way to put it back on her and have hers voided if she did something, like take money out of our checking account when she signed papers for the divorce? I am 18, my boyfriend is 16. we weren't there but when he came home the one guy was sitting in his car across from the house and told her father he wanted to know if I, the husband. That's when I called the police because they were fighting and causing major chaos in their bedroom and I thought things were taking a dangerous turn so I got scared and called. I am an inspector and cover a lot of houses in his neighborhood. What should i do? In the federal courts, a TRO is governed by Rule 65(b) of the Federal Rules of Civil Procedure. The counselor says in the order that my daughter has many seats to choose from (as does the counselor) and that she turns around and looks at her family all the time (Impossible. Temporary Restraining Order: A court order that lasts only until the court can hear further evidence. Well that's besides the point. My fear is that this will destroy her chance for employment, since she is a senior. A 10yr order--what act would give that by a judge. Be careful and get your parents and the police in on this. A temporary restraining order (TRO) is a short-term emergency order. If he does that, then that means there might not be enough money for my college education, my mum's, brother's and my expenses. he completely bypassed me then yesterday after our parents agreed to let me give him a birthday card on Sunday, he approached me in the morning about a note that said something about me knowing he hates me now and explained to me that he still loves me and that the day my love for him dies is the day his does as well. You must be present at the hearing if you wish to continue the restraining order. And if she was ever having a problem with me, she could have simply ignored me. He said no then he proceeded to tell my father in law we owed them money and he was going to beat me and the other men were going to gang bang my wife to get what we owe. I've never treated my wife poorly in any way, much less ever in 13 years raised or even wished to raise a hand to her. You can counterfile. Other requirements for a temporary restraining order typically are procedural, such as the requesting party or an attorney for that party needing to submit the proper paperwork that provides details of the harm that might occur if the TRO is not issued. It's not fair that you were unable to keep her from contacting you, or harassing you, but that's when you should have filed for the restraining or no-contact order. Like last week, while my daughter was at practice, she was shutting the main gate, because it was her job that night. I am a stay at home father by both of our choices. I dealt with it until I couldn't take what she said to me, so I replied, saying I will be mean to your kids if you don't stop this. You don't need to try to get through this without some backup. Give a copy to anyone else protected by the order. He is influencing his son so much that he wound up breaking up with me, but only in official terms. 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